Celebrating Your Anniversary: The Names and Meanings of Every Year

It’s something that we’re all aware of: we’ve attended a grandparents’ golden wedding anniversary party, or we’ve heard off-the-cuff comments from friends and family about someone else’s diamond anniversary. However, what a lot of people don’t know is that there is a precious stone or material assigned to every single year of marriage!

The tradition of celebrating anniversaries originated in the Middle Ages, when members of the bourgeois ruling class would gift their wives silver crowns to commemorate twenty-five years of marriage, and golden crowns upon fifty years together. Luckily, this practice survived until the 21st century, and has evolved in these few centuries, with every year now celebrated with a different name and meaning.

Foto: Gustavo Tascon para Lagusmedia
Photo: Lagusmedia

Paper, cotton, leather and porcelain anniversaries are amongst some of the oldest in this tradition, originally used to help husbands and brides know what to gift one another. As the years pass, the corresponding stone or material increases in value until a couple reaches their 60th anniversary, which is symbolised with a diamond – the most precious and valuable stone. In this article, we will tell you the names of every anniversary according to their year, and a few intriguing facts as well!

Foto: Juliana Alvarez
Photo: Juliana Alvarez

The first five years of marriage…

1st anniversary: Paper

2nd anniversary: Cotton

3rd anniversary: Leather

4th anniversary: Linen

5th anniversary: Wood

The history books recommend that for the first anniversary, despite being the “paper” year, husbands and wives buy each other a watch; this represents the passing of time since the wedding, and (hopefully!) how quickly it has passed.

Foto: Diana Malagón
Photo: Diana Malgadon

From 6 years to the first ten…

6th anniversary: Iron

7th anniversary: Wool

8th anniversary: Bronze

9th anniversary: Clay

10th anniversary: Aluminium

Iron symbolises the strength of a couple that has successfully navigated the first stage of marriage. Afterwards comes bronze, the finest of the metals in the first decade of marriage. The materials progress from the most fragile of objects to the most robust to parallel how a marriage strengthens with time, and how this special union grows more secure and more intimate as the years pass.

Photo: Donna Irene Muccio
Photo: Donna Irene Muccio

The second stage of marriage…

11th anniversary: Steel

12th anniversary: Silk

13th anniversary: Lace

14th anniversary: Ivory

15th anniversary: Glass

16th anniversary: Ivy

17th anniversary: Wallflower

18th anniversary: Quartz

19th anniversary: Honeysuckle

20th anniversary: Porcelain

After the first decade of marriage, the types of stones and materials used are supposed to symbolise the tenacity and longevity of the relationship. And from the 16th year until the 20th, the first of the precious stones are introduced to celebrate the persistence and resilience of the marriage. At this stage, the experts recommend that the gifts you choose for your husband or wife should be reflective of early moments in your relationship to remind you of how far you have come together.

Foto: Eli Cinema
Photo: Eli Cinema

Until the third decade…

21st anniversary: China

22st anniversary: Copper

23rd anniversary: Water

24th anniversary: Granite

25th anniversary: Silver

30th anniversary: Pearl

In the UK, the use of materials and stones starts to decrease once couples reach their silver anniversary – from this year on, the remaining precious materials are reserved for the larger anniversaries, which are usually celebrated every 5-10 years. However, the silver anniversary is considered very special: 25 years of love, compromise, partnership and growth together as a couple. This is typically when the big celebrations begin!

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Photo: Guido Photography & Films

Until the Golden Anniversary!

If everything continues to go well, a married couple will be able to celebrate the following anniversaries:

35th anniversary: Coral

40th anniversary: Ruby

45th anniversary: Sapphire

50th anniversary: Gold

To be able to say you’ve been married for fifty years is an incredibly important achievement in a persons’ life, and in the lives of their spouse and their families. This anniversary warrants a big celebration, which is almost always a very emotional affair for everyone involved – a chance to toast a relationship that has overcome all kinds of obstacles.

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Photo via Shutterstock

After the 50th anniversary, materials are only assigned for every five years:

55th anniversary: Emerald

60th anniversary: Diamond

65th anniversary: Blue sapphire

70th anniversary: Platinum

75th anniversary: Titanium

80th anniversary: Oak

85th anniversary: Wine

90th anniversary: Stone

95th anniversary: Onyx

100th anniversary: Bone

In the UK, there are only guidelines up until the 90th anniversary – which may still be a little of a stretch! The 95th and 100th materials seen here are as they appear in Spain.

Nowadays, most couples only focus on celebrating their silver, gold, and diamond anniversaries. However, it can be very romantic to try and give your partner a gift related to your anniversary year, as many traditionally did in the latter centuries of the 20th century.

Foto: Eli Cinema
Photo: Eli Cinema

What is the name of your next anniversary?

If you like this article, don’t forget to check out: How To Celebrate Your Anniversary in 5 Steps.

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