How To Find The Perfect Wedding Planner: 5 Steps To Success

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So, you’ve announced your engagement, and now it’s time to start planning the wedding, but where to begin? You’ve opted to take advantage of the services that wedding planners can offer so that they can help you prepare the celebration you’ve always dreamed of, but how do you really know if a wedding planner is right for you? Today, we’ll reveal to you the key questions that are absolutely essential to ask when meeting with a professional wedding planner for the first time.

 Step 1: Start searching for you wedding planner

The search for the perfect wedding planner for your big day isn’t an easy task but it’s the most important if you want to organise your day as stress-free as possible! Therefore, we recommend that you pay full attention when deciding who to hire, and that you keep the following things in mind:

Assess exactly what you need

You’ve always dreamed of a wedding full of details, with a defined style that reflects your tastes and personality. It’s your unique day, so you must try and make it the best it can be, whilst keeping within your budget. Wedding planner, Danila Stellasays that “the only way you can choose the right wedding planner if you speak to them and see if they understand you and your needs. If you have a connection, if they are flexible and willing to follow your desires without pushing their own ideas, then you’ve found the right person to plan your wedding“.

Photo: Elisabetta White Wedding Planner

Types of service

As soon as you start looking for your wedding planner, it’s fundamental that you look in detail at the type of services they offer, and if it fits your needs. The most important are:

Complete Organisation: as the name indicates, it is about the complete organisation of the wedding. From the advice and management of suppliers, going through the decoration of the wedding, arriving at the coordination of D-Day.

Advice from suppliers: if you do not know where to start, they will help you choose the rest of the suppliers by selecting those that fit your taste and style.

Decoration: do you want your wedding to be remembered for the exclusive details? Well you can hire a wedding planner to personalise each of the corners of your wedding venue.

Co-ordination of the day: If all you need is to have peace of mind that everything goes well and that the different suppliers comply with the contract, this option is ideal.

Photo: The Vows PWC Portugal Wedding Consultants

Search on the internet

The best way to find the most recommended wedding planners will undoubtedly be internet and wedding portals like Zankyou where you will find a wide range of possibilities depending on the area where you marry as well as all those who work in the sector. For example, if you’re having a destination wedding and you don’t know the local area, an online directory is perfect to find planners such as The Vows – PWC Portugal Wedding Consultantsa group of talented planner who aim to promote cool, alternative spaces never before used as a wedding event space.

Assess your budget

Apart from the other important parts of your day, like your wedding dress, shoes, flowers, you have to leave an important place in your budget for a wedding planner. Keep in mind that they will be in charge of organising all your event, so they need to have a clear of your budget and just how much you want to spend on each part.

Photo: Wonderlust Events

Step 2: Know their availability

Create a list of favourites

After the search, you should make a list with the wedding planner that you liked best and which best fit your style. It is necessary to organise in advance and look for them as soon as you have the date of the wedding, so that they can help you with all the preparations. Alessandra, from The Italian Wedding Tailor, says that “after looking on the web, you should make a small selection of 3 potential wedding planners and contact them to make an appointment, as it’s important to meet each other to understand if there is empathy among you, something that’s essential for the success of your wedding”.

Personal interviews

It is important to know if they have the option of doing a personal interview to get-to-know exactly how they work first hand. This point is important, especially if you are living abroad or in a different city as the wedding planner. If, in these cases, they do it via video call or by telephone.

Exclusivity: number of weddings in a day

If you always knew which wedding planner you wanted, or you have decided on the one you liked the most, it is time to know the volume of work they have and how many weddings they tend to coordinate in a day, since it may happen that on your wedding day, you have other weddings that coincide.

Photo: Tenuta Esdra Agri SPA

Step 3: Personal interview

Get to know how they work

In the personal interview you’ll get to know how they’ll organise and coordinate with you throughout the planning process. It is essential that you can coordinate with them throughout the process, because planning a wedding. Longtime wedding planner, Holly, says she “always advices [her] clients to meet [her] via Skype or in person first as it’s important that you ‘click’ as you’ll be spending a lot of time together through such a personal and emotional time of your life, you want to do this with someone you like and that you’re on the same page with“.

Explain your needs

This is the perfect opportunity to tell them exactly what you want, as well as your doubts and concerns. This is opportunity to give them a clear photo of how you want your day to look. At this point you’ll be sure whether they’re the right planner for you or not, so creating a good, honest relationship is key. A great wedding planner for those who have opted for a destination wedding is WeD Design. At WeD Design, wedding planner, Daniela Della Croce, prides herself on her management and organisational skills, in order to provide a creative yet professional service for your big day.

Photo: The Italian Wedding Tailor

Step 4: Get to know how they work and their prices


As it’s such an important part of your day, it’s necessary to have a well established schedule. You need to know if they’ll be working on just your wedding or more, for example.

Do they have a catalogue of suppliers?

Many wedding planners have connections with other suppliers. It’s best to know if they are of a good quality, and if you’d be interested in using them for your big day.

What’s included in the budget

It’s necessary to get a well defined the price of each of their services, that you know if there are certain details that are excluded from it and some not.

Photo: Danila Stella Wedding Planner

Step 5: Decide whether they’re the wedding planner for you

Ask for recommendations, especially if someone you know has hired their services previously. See if they meet your requirements, and if they fit your budget, and fit with your style, you may have just found the one!

Finally, don’t forget to ask if she will be with you on your big day or have a team that will be divided to accommodate several events at once. As wedding planner Elisabetta White says, “you should always ask the wedding planner what kind of assistants s/he will bring on the wedding day. Are they labourers or are they trained and/or practicing planners? It doesn’t matter if they are labourers but you should not be paying the fee of a professional assistant if they are interns or labourers.”

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